We can probably all agree that Ann Landers was a seriously disturbed bigot.  She once advised a troubled teen that if he had ever wondered if he was gay he almost certainly was.  This is obviously ridiculous advice. God knows how many people are living the gay lifestyle today because of that column. It would be wrong, however, to completely condemn her methodology.  For example, if you have ever asked yourself the question “Am I a pussy?” – you almost certainly are.